Too many times I see people arguing against choice because:

1. People that can’t have babies want it


2. The Father wants her to have it

As an adopted child, I’m appalled by the first one because my birth mother gave my parents a gift. It was not something she owed them. It was her choice to carry me and her choice to give them the gift of parenthood. She DID NOT have a responsibility to be their incubator. SHE CHOSE TO. 

The second one is also annoying because it disregards that in order for the father to have the child, the mother will have to carry it for 9 months. She does not owe that to him. She is not his incubator.